3 months is completed. I used to wonder that i am fine or not?, now it is not like that. The day after i arrived in Darchula i attended the office and woh!!!! i dont remember anything about that day. one thing i remember is introduction with JTA Sushila di and as due to tiredness of travelling for continous 24 hrs i just felt where i am? i couldnot think of anything. I just want to say that first 1 month in Darchula is one of the toughtest time i have ever faced in my life till now. as i suffered from insomnia and i know my eyes were sleepy but i am still awake. It nearly took 1 month to recover my normal routine like in chitwan. Thank god, you made by situation even worse as my mobile got broked. what?? i just cann’t imagine the situation worse than this as i don’t have number of any of my friends and other important call detail.
Darchula is a beautiful district which holds the beauty of high hills and unique landscape.Its my first time in far western region and i always wanted to visit this beautiful far western region since my bachelor days. I can’t imagine that i will surely be in Darchula at once. My routine of joining office started with as usual schedule for whole 3 months. I used to walk through the roads of Khalanga, travelling and enjoying the beauty of Mahakali river. During the period of internship i learnt lots of new facts which i would never experience in life without joining job at far distant from home. Basically i spent most of my life in Hostel hanging with friends be it my childhood or my college days, i always lived in Hostel. Living alone far away from home i realized that i am the one who is there to protect me in any situation. There is one famous proverb “when in rome , do as the romans do” and this is what i actually felt after spending time in Darchula for three months. The darkest and toughest first month is what i ever don’t want to face but until and unless you dont fell you won’t learn. It’s True! Living the life in Darchula i have learnt a lots of things. educational part is on one side while social part is one important lesson i have learnt. i Learnt to be well mannered and frankly i got idea how to deal with problems. I just started to accept what is there in my working place. Be it in field or in my room there is no space from where i could feel safe. For a moment i felt that i am being driven by my fear and i just console me saying “You are strong”. I wonder that i have such supported parents who loved me more than my younger parents and felt i am lucky to have them, seeing girls at my age are married in this place.You know Girls in this place also feel shy to speak and oh!!! you all know to what extent i can speak all time as a chatterbox.I got ache in my heart, what will i do? The biggest hobby of mine is Trekking and visiting Darchula its all gone i thought. Later i started to enjoy thoroughly the beauty it possess and the difficulty that it wears in case of geography. Slowly, i am adapting to the societ of Darchula. One unique things found in Darchula is Unboiled milk Dahi and the curry of that dahi(chajha). i Just hate this dish.yak!!!!
Till now i wonder why people always comment on girls. Despite appreciating the efforts, are always found commenting on what she does and what she wears. Are!!!! what’s there problem???? Let girls feel safe so that go for work in any part of country please don;t tie their legs with social norms and values. stop questioning???? I will just express my view Darchula is best for visit as it holds a lot of scope for tourism. Doing job here means you will be like where am i??? Beautiful far west is what i comment about Darchula and this is one place you must definitely visit for once.
Walking up and down the hills i realized the pain of people living here but they are habituated to it. Women drudgery is one major problem seen, most women are involved on doing Househlod chores.Staffs in office frequently ask me how is Darchula? and i am confused to tell them it is good or it is just okay. i simply reply it is okay and they smiled commenting she thought a lot to say it’s okay also. it mean she doesn’t like to visit Darchula next time. I thought that as a officer i cant’t afford to serve here but as a visitor i would definitely liked to visit . i just want to see the beauty of khandeshowri, situated at lap of Api mountain. So, Now you decide Darchula is good or okay? I am still confused, Darchula to be remembered as bad memory or good memory?